{"id":6015,"date":"2024-11-16T17:05:30","date_gmt":"2024-11-16T10:05:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wilimedia.vn\/?p=6015"},"modified":"2024-11-16T17:05:49","modified_gmt":"2024-11-16T10:05:49","slug":"vi-sao-nguoi-ngoai-hinh-dep-de-thanh-cong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wiliph.com\/vi-sao-nguoi-ngoai-hinh-dep-de-thanh-cong\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi\u0300 Sao Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i Ngoa\u0323i Hi\u0300nh \u0110e\u0323p D\u00ea\u0303 Tha\u0300nh C\u00f4ng?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Nhan s\u1eafc v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, li\u1ec7u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n?\u00a0 \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng suy ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem x\u00e9t t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
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Theo b\u00e1o Journal of Labor Economics, ng\u01b0\u1eddi xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd cao h\u01a1n 5% so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 ve\u0309 ngo\u00e0i trung b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 9% cao h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ee9c trung b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xinh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p k\u00e9m nhan s\u1eafc.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, m\u1ed9t n\u1eef nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 42.000 USD m\u1ed7i n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m xu\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n 40.000 USD n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c “nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u00fa” ho\u1eb7c “xo\u00e0ng th\u00f4i”.<\/p>\n
B\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng t\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kinh doanh l\u1edbn \u1edf Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n c\u00f4 th\u01b0 k\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sang m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00e1c v\u00ec b\u1ed9 r\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y qu\u00e1 x\u1ea5u, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 lanh l\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n
Trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng “x\u1ed9p” \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u00f4ng x\u1ebfp n\u00e0y l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t h\u00e0m r\u0103ng m\u1edbi cho c\u00f4 th\u01b0 k\u00fd, n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd.<\/p>\n
M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Democracy \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o t\u1eeb Journal of Labor Economics v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n
B\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng t\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kinh doanh l\u1edbn \u1edf Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n c\u00f4 th\u01b0 k\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sang m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00e1c v\u00ec b\u1ed9 r\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y qu\u00e1 x\u1ea5u, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 lanh l\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t trong n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i thua k\u00e9m v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
Aley, ch\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng m\u1ef9 ph\u1ea9m \u1edf My\u0303, gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: “Theo t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang m\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 duy\u00ean, ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n.”<\/p>\n
May m\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb9p; khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Jessica, m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u1edf bang Texas, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec1n d\u1ecbu.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Tammy, m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i lao \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf My\u0303, \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi \u0111i t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m:<\/p>\n
M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p d\u1ec5 da\u0300ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng\u2014t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 lanh l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
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Theo Journal of Labour Economics, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n khi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, bao g\u1ed3m l\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u1ea9ng cao v\u00e0 m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
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Trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2019, 284 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00e1c b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. Do \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.<\/p>\n
Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7n kinh l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1p ly\u0301 Judy Ho t\u1eeb California, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gen kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh. Ho tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0 “hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng h\u00e0o quang”.\u00a0 N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c. V\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn, theo Ho. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng th\u00f4ng minh, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, theo nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n
B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Khi h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: “Ok, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, th\u00f4ng minh, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng.”<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nhau, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, theo chuy\u00ean gia l\u00fd gia\u0309i s\u1ebd coi tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xinh \u0111\u1eb9p khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean s\u1ebd quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n h\u01a1n, h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. Ho n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u0103ng l\u00ean khi h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd gia Judy Ho, ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f4i khi ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng\u2014\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef xinh \u0111\u1eb9p qu\u00e1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh ho\u1eb7c n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tin r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ho nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c theo nh\u00f3m ho\u1eb7c l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. v\u00ec v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn gi\u00fap h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c thi nhan s\u1eafc.<\/p>\n
(Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. H\u1ecd n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho h\u1ecd b\u1edfi sinh h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.)<\/p>\n
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Benly \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i, anh h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a em g\u00e1i t\u00f4i. Benly h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trai t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00edch. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n
Anh \u1ea5y cao. H\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi to\u0309a n\u0103\u0301ng.v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh. Benly m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 Benly s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n nghe.<\/p>\n
“Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t vu\u0300ng l\u00e0 d\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eed nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i trong nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, h\u1ecd may m\u1eafn t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Benly cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, anh \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, v\u00ec v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ai quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u. Anh ta v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng sau \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng. B\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i l\u00e0ng, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n (Baba) g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 thay v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0a c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e1c s\u0129. V\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb cho c\u00f4.<\/p>\n
S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chuy\u00ea\u0309n bi\u00ea\u0301n x\u00e2\u0301u h\u01a1n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n, n\u01a1i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n b\u1ecb ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u00f4 v\u00e0 \u00e9p c\u00f4 sinh con. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 cha th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bu\u00f4\u0323c pha\u0309i d\u01b0\u0300ng la\u0323i. Sau hai n\u0103m, c\u00f4 ph\u1ea3i sinh th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con. \u0110\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc cho h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
C\u00f4 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai v\u00e0 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf r\u01a1i. Do kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea5u \u0111i nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Th\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u1ecb h\u1ecfng sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, khi c\u00f4 qua \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng co\u0300n nh\u01b0 lu\u0301c \u0111\u00e2\u0300u.<\/p>\n
Benly \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 cho ch\u1ecb c\u00f4 \u00e2\u0301y m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. Ngo\u00e0i ra, Benly cho ph\u00e9p c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra, li\u1ec7u ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00e1ch quan h\u00f3a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01a1i n\u00e0o trong ng\u00e0nh th\u1eddi trang m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u00e9o v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p trai c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u a\u0301i h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Benly l\u00e0 c\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0a nh\u00ecn thay v\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 khi ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi cho d\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Benly<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian t\u1eeb m\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m n\u0103m nh\u01b0 Nawazuddin Siddiqui \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng minh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong ng\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1edb tr\u00eau c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng minh, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef cu\u0303ng nh\u01b0 \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u1edbi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng ai c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, n\u00e2ng cao tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed9ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n M\u1ed7i ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t m\u1ecdi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n >> Xem th\u00eam<\/strong><\/p>\nK\u00ea\u0301t Lu\u00e2\u0323n:<\/strong><\/h2>\n